Example

 Often I run into people who say that they changed churches or recovery meetings because the church or meeting did not have what they wanted.  It was not being done “the right way.”  So they find a place where everyone is pretty much like them.  So who witnesses the right way to those who are on the so called “wrong way?”  Rather than judge a group, I think, for me, I want to be of service.  So I go where people do things differently than I prefer.  By my manner and practice I am an example of a different way.  Is it uncomfortable? Yes. But then being of service is such.  For Christians, we are people of the cross, not the softer, easier way.