Listening

 One of the beat things about listening to someone else is that it can break the stranglehold of self-centeredness.  I find that spiritual paths that focus on sanity, surrender and service, the “Three S’s” are very good for getting me out of myself.  So I try to be a good listener when I know that someone is trying for self-expression, or to untangle emotions, for instance.  On my better days I will even put down the Sports Pages, my breakfast bible, and listen.  If I wish the person would finish so I could get on with my important day, saving the world or whatever, then I am not listening.  Looks can fade and strength can fade, but being a good listener can be an always thing.  And can keep you attractive, or at least worth keeping around!