Hospitality

 You can give someone what is called “hospitality of the house.”  You welcome or allow someone a shelter, food, warmth, a bathroom.  Lots of partner relationships, and families, are not much more than humanitarians.  The humanitarian may say they love you, but what you don’t see or hear is the chatter in their heart.  They don’t yet have a love that respects the other as they are.  Instead, they mumble to themselves, the humanitarians, about how lazy, selfish, and useless someone is with whom they live.  Spiritual warfare battles at this level.  That is why “being of service” in any process, is important.  You often learn a lot about yourself, your interior attitude and judgments.  Maybe the person you serve will remain unchanged, but you will be changed the more you know about yourself and your inner conflicts.