When I come to San Francisco to visit with my Paulist brothers, I don't spend a lot of time running about town, eating out, visiting old friends, as much as I used to. I am not here all that long each visit, so I take time to "be present" to the Paulists who live in the rectory. Generally, they are at dinner each evening. Four of them no longer drive. So I am at dinner too. I bake bread and make muffins for them, and pizza on Sunday evening. I am in the ministry of "Presence" in this rectory. Never underestimate the value of presence to another. You may be making a difference even if you say nothing profound, nor do they say much about your presence. I often attend meetings and offer my presence. I don't have to pressure myself to "be of value" by some wisdom, or insight. Just be there, but really be there. Ram Dass, "Be Here Now. "
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This works out well with my 18 year old too, just knowing I'm there in the same room, often opens up little conversations he starts. Magic.
ReplyDeleteI always love it when I see you at meetings and especially love it when you share, Father Ryan. The first time I saw you at one I was almost giddy with happiness and you didn't have to say a word. Magic again.
Thank you! :)
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