New Start

 What is a new start?  Often enough it is simply walking away from a failure and just repeating it again under new circumstances.  A person who has no talent for being married, ends up divorced and just “makes a new start” by getting remarried.  This is not a plan.  There are no new starts without a plan.  Why don’t people come up with a new plan?  Because they think they have enough power to fix things themself.  No reflection.  No asking for help or getting second opinions from people who have had success in whatever you are trying to do or escape.  Alcoholics decide to stop drinking but have no plan.  They think their will-power is enough.  They drink again and again.  No plan.  So if you want a new start don’t try to do it yourself.  We cannot fix ourself.  Find the people who are successful at what you are trying to do.  Find mentors.