A Joiner

Some people are simply not by nature, joiners.  They don't do groups.  They do a lot of stuff alone even if it makes them unhappy or non-productive.  An example would be people who drink alone.  They want to stop,  or cut back, but alone, they cannot.   Well, something seems to need to change.  They cannot control drinking so that stays.  But they can walk into a meeting, become a joiner, of other people who are doing what they cannot do alone, stop drinking.  There are times to be alone, but there are times to not be alone, otherwise, time runs out all too fast.