NO Joy

 The reason that we murmur is that we lack love.  There is no joy where there is no love.  If you take a nature walk and hate everything about it, the temperature, the terrain, muddy path, then you have no love of the nature through which you are walking and you end up murmuring.  Why do you murmur, grumble in a group of people?  Probably, a lack of love and so a lack of joy in seeing anything about these people that is positive and worth loving.  I murmur less, the more  I appreciate these men with whom I live.  They become lovable in spite of their imperfections.  Would that no one murmurs about me.