We

 The best way for me to stay sane and balanced is to be a “we” person rather than an “I” person.  In the past, it seems that I was at my worst when alone in isolation.  But when I was helpful to others, or with others in some meeting with a topic, or on a team in an event, I was much saner and healthier.  There is also the unhealthy way of being alone with others.  I don’t recommend that either.  “We” as in being connected outside of myself is the better we.