Somebody Else

 People often believe or feel that they belong to some group because they show up at group meetings.  Some people believe they belong to a group because they live with them.  Nothing more is required.  These are the somebody else people.  When something needs to be done they think somebody else will do it.  Or they might say, “who is going to do that.”  But they never volunteer to be the “who” they just mentioned.  They become mere bystanders in any setting.  It can happen in families, or any group, club, organization setting.  In business you can at least fire them.  The bystander generally does not get paid.