People tell me that they are not selfish. They help others for instance. But I see sometimes that the help given is quite manipulative. Some people give help in order to get something. It is quid pro quo. This for that. They even use the words “I love you,” when what they mean is “I want sex,” Or they want someone to take care of them beyond what they can provide for themself. The obvious ones are trophy wife and marrying for money. But there are more hidden ways and someone who says they are a God-Believer or a Recovery from Addiction person must watch out for any hidden selfish motives. Try being helpful when you get no return or the results don’t work out as you hoped. This is cutting edge help.
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I love to do something nice without getting "caught". Can be as simple as picking up the loaf of bread you see in an aisle on the floor and putting it back on the shelf or putting your shopping cart back. It's the little things that mean so much. 💕
ReplyDeleteI feel better when I give money to a homeless person without passing judgment..there but by the grace of God go I..
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