Blame

When I make a choice to do one thing instead of another, it is part of a plan.  I want certain results.  When I don't get the expected results, i.e. my plans do not work out, I tend to blame others.  I suffer, am a victim, because of the stupid things that they do.  Why don't they cooperate with my plans?  I rarely want to look at the beginning of the debacle.  What began it?  I made a choice.  I could have made another choice that might have ended up in a mess.  I will not know.  When I can accept that many of my problems come from expectations based upon my decisions, I become more calm.  I have the power to accept or blame.  That might be the choice I need to make each day.