Wasted Fruit

I read where half of the fruit and veggies produced in the United States goes to waste.  Why?  Because people are obsessed with how the product looks.  It is tough for growers to sell stuff that does not look "right" on the outside.  Blemishes won't sell.  This would be me when I shop for groceries.  The question is, "Do I treat people the same way?"  Oops.  Maybe.  I am supposed to love all people regardless of how they look on the outside.  Their appearance should not matter.  Social standing, gender orientation and such should not influence me.  I am afraid that at times I do shop people like I shop my veggies and fruit.  I may burn.  How about you?