Work The Solutions

 I go to meetings of people who are working on spiritual solutions to life's problems.  I try not to present old problems at the meeting for which I received a previous spiritual solution.  Rather I try to use the advice given to me to work on the problem after the meeting.  If I bring up the same ole mess each meeting it is because I am not working the solution.  I am just using the meeting to "feel better."  OK, but that is not the same as spiritual growth or becoming mature and grown up.  It is me just being lazy and whining.  I minimize my time in gatherings where there is a preponderance of old issues and hardly any solutions offered.  I prefer to step into solutions, but it takes work.