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It is better to be disliked or rejected for who you really are, then to be liked for who you are not, so someone found out.  It takes a lot of work to keep up the facade of someone you are not, just so you will be accepted by whoever or whatever.  The stress of a job interview or college entrance interview or process of applying for so many things.  What do they want?  You ask yourself and it is so stressful, and false to try to “get in” then to be rejected for not being what they want.  There is a place for you, but you don’t find the place until you find you.  I keep working on that even to this day.