Mix Up

 Some of us, when we hear a suggestion, we think it is a criticism.  So, we tend to ignore it or refuse to accept it.  Fear of change, or desire for ego control, can be the cause of this mistranslation.  Even worse, we may see a suggestion as criticism being used as a weapon against us.  This borders on insanity.  If insanity can leave us alone for a bit, we might get some clarity and see that the suggestion is a tool and not a weapon/criticism being used against us.  Even better, and more sane, is that we decide to get someone to help us if we have never used the tool before.  It will all lead to a better self, less fearful and  less lonely.  My blogs are suggestions.