Loss

 Some solutions call for the asset of loss.  It is the letting go that solves a problem or dilemma.  The sacrifice of something precious to us can make us a better person for the sake of another.  When one becomes an alcoholic they lose their ability to drink like a normal person.  The solution to this situation is to lose the practice of drinking totally.  Abstinence.  The loss of drinking, if in a Recovery program brings great assets.  When one takes on a religious or spiritual practice of meditation, they give up time for some other things so as to practice the meditation.  And that leads to a sense of compassion for others.  Which in turn leads to letting go of something for the sake of another person.  Love is an asset of loss.  With surprising gain to often follow.