Live

 There is the saying, "Live and let live."  It is often used as a way to just let other people be and don't try and fix them.  But the first word of the phrase is "LIVE" and that means you have to live, as in learn to live life to its fullest.  Become your full self, not a fantasy self, or a negative self, but the goodness that is in you, though too often hidden behind judgments, resentments, anger and false pride.  Plus a lot of hurt is buried in the "past life" chamber.  If you let past hurts rule your life then you won't really live.  You will die slowly or quickly from the insides.  The best way for me to live each day is to forget myself, that self who is always critiquing the world around me.  Look and see without judgment.  There is a lot to see if we allow it to come out of hiding behind our narrow views.