I tend to place people in tiny containers. I make a judgment about them and that is their container.They cannot be otherwise than I have judged them. Why do this? Because I don’t like inconsistencies. Too upsetting. If you are a jerk, then you are always and in every way a jerk. I need to learn to embrace as, someone called it, “opposite truths.” A person may in deed be truly a jerk in some ways, but then quite noble and uplifting in other ways or circumstances. They would then be like most of us, inconsistent, with a bit of this and a bit of that. I punish myself by putting people into tiny containers. It limits my knowing them. And throws friendship, much less intimacy out the window.
Tuesday, May 6, 2025
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Great visuals and message, thank you! ❤️
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