Wanting

 Wanting is not in the toolbox for change.  We can say I want to pray more or I want to be kinder, or I want to stop drinking.  Well, you need to open a toolbox of action with someone who knows how the tools work.  Wanting to pray or be kinder or stop drinking does not come with knowing how to do any of these things.  You can read a book but maybe you need to talk to someone who actually has had some success in whatever it is you are wanting to do.  You need to apprentice just like a person who wants to build some furniture or fix cars or become a CEO.  If I stop at wanting, then it won’t be much of a day or a life.