Indifference

 Indifference has its place.  If you have problems with things changing, why not embrace things with “indifference.”  That is, embrace them lightly.  I don’t mean people, but rather stuff, the things that fill up our storage spaces, attics, garages and basements.  We all have a vocation to love, and lots of our stuff does nothing to support such a vocation.  If you have a job, rather than a career, hold it lightly, as you may be sooner let go than you might prefer.  If you miss out on something for one reason or another, hold what you missed lightly, or with indifference.  Then it won’t so wound or bother you.  I think a spiritual path teaches us what to hold onto and what to hold lightly or with indifference.  Hold lightly the groups that might reject you.