Outsides

 Addicts and some others tend to look outside themselves to feel better.  A drink solves the issue for an alcoholic for instance.  Looking for a community or a gym or relationship are other ways to search outside oneself for the solution to feeling badly.  I find that the solution is to look on the insides first.  This would be the long term ongoing solution.  It is a spiritual solution because the bad feelings are most often spiritual issues.  They are about our insides not getting proper attention.  It really is mystical and no outside solution can touch the mystical.