A Balance

We need the sense of separate self, the ego, to function in this world.  But it must be balanced with the sense of being part of a greater whole.  If we just meditate and have the sene of oneness, we won't be very loving or helpful in the world.  If we are completely into individualism, we will be selfishly out of balance.  We need both.  I think it is prayer and works.  Prayer beyond asking for things for the self, and works beyond trying to build up possessions or reputation or self-importance.