Wednesday, May 1, 2019

Forgiveness*

Do you forgive others so that they will like you?  To make them feel better?  When I forgive, I have no control over how the other person will feel or respond.  So my act of forgiveness is not about them.  My forgiveness is selfish.  It is about me.  Say what?  Well, selfish is not always bad.  I forgive so that my peace and happiness will not be in the hands of someone who hurt me in the first place.  I don't want to be hostage to another person's feelings or opinion of me.  I will feel better if you will feel better?  It  does not really work.  It is an attempt at control that can prove fruitless.  I forgive others because I need to be healed of the damage done to me by others.  Some of the damage has been done by people who are dead.  My wanting them in hell, should there be such a place, does not heal me.  I get people off my resentment list by forgiving them their wrongs done to me.  This kind of forgiveness is not weakness.  It is wisdom on the spiritual path.

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