Wednesday, February 25, 2015
When I make a choice to do one thing instead of another, it is part of a plan. I want certain results. When I don't get the expected results, i.e. my plans do not work out, I tend to blame others. I suffer, am a victim, because of the stupid things that they do. Why don't they cooperate with my plans? I rarely want to look at the beginning of the debacle. What began it? I made a choice. I could have made another choice that might have ended up in a mess. I will not know. When I can accept that many of my problems come from expectations based upon my decisions, I become more calm. I have the power to accept or blame. That might be the choice I need to make each day.