I heard from Pre-School pedagogy debates, that some say it is more important for a four year old to learn to be a four year old rather than to prepare to be five. That is, let them be kids at play and don't be so concerned about them being prepared for the next level, such as Harvard. I am seventy-five. I think that I will learn how to be seventy-five rather than prepare to be seventy-six. Live in today, and play more. Will it work for you? Someday will be our last day, and I sure hope I am learning to live that day rather than being totally focused preparing for a next year.